I went to watch Vel yesterday and it was great!! I feel like watching it again!
Went for Kamini's brother's wedding on Thursday.
The beauties.
Suha and me
Saje and me
Kamini and me
The event for my workplace which I have been planning has over 60 sign ups!! But I am sure not all 60 will turn up. hahah.
Went to Tank Rd temple with Sajetha to follow Kamini's bf kavadi as it was Karthigai yesterday. My god, Singapore is just getting bad to worse. OK not Singapore, but its weather. I was standing and talking to Aishu and my feet was burning cause it was that hot.
Other than that, I can't stand those wild Indians who whistle, dance and behave like they are some hooligans at an auspicious festival. Here people are together to show their devotion and to fulfill their vows. I am amazed at how some people just can't get something as simple as this to their head.
Saturday, November 24, 2007 // 7:03 PM
I had a fabulous time with Thana and Bestie on Friday. We headed to Thai Express and had a ball of our time, snapping photos like we owned Thai Express. Hahhaa.
My family had an open house on Sunday mainly for my dad's working colleagues. I called a few of my friends on my side. The open house was great! Kids running everywhere. Adults talking in groups and bursting into laughter every now and then. This is the first open house our family has hosted since moving to Woodlands 8 years ago. Heh.
My baby was so hardworking that even I was impressed with him. He was helping out and trying to be a better host than me. Haha.
It will be a busy week for me and my baby as well. His exams are coming up and for me, I have this event to plan for next Wednesday. God knows how I am going to pull through.
I am itching to do something. Like book a chalet, do some shoe shopping or go Sentosa. Sighs. But I am going to be broke soooon!!
Thank god for you. Thank god for your patience. Thank god for your perseverance. Thank god for your committment.
Thats me reasoning out with one of the waiters.
The beauties of Thai Express
Labels: Deepavali, family, friends, love
Tuesday, November 20, 2007 // 6:17 AM
So. Om Shanti Om was fabulousssssssss!! Deepika is so damn hot. I wish I had a body like hers. Surprisingly, I loved watching the villan parts here cause Arjun is so damn good! hahah basically its a very good movie and please if you guys are going to watch in GV Yishun, please bring a sweater/jacket. When my bf and I went to watch on Monday, it was freezing cold that I was actually jerking from my seat.
Deepavali was gooood. It was spent in a private way with my family. We gave thosai and mutton curry to 3 of our neighbours and for dinner, we ordered pizza. It was damn nice, with the new decorations being put up. Hah. I hope Deepavali was good for you guys. Following that, the next day we left to KL to Ashwin's maternal grandparent's home for some function. We took the AeroLine coach back on Sunday and it was one of the best. It is a double-decker coach and on the first deck, they had 6 sofas and a flat screen tv with a table in the middle. And, there were 50 movies that you can choose to watch. On the 2nd deck, there were 20 big seats. As you'd guess, I was seating below all the way. Heh.
My questions for this entry,
- Why does one prefer to stay in an physical/emotional abusive relationship compared to a relationship where one of the partner is near perfection??
- Why do the abused victims keep hoping for the better though there are rare signs for improvement?
- Why do one always opt for break-up when their near-perfect partner opts for otherwise?
I mean it just dawned upon me that some prefer to stay in a abusive relationship and break-up would be the last thing on their mind. But, some who has a near perfect partner always opts for break-up first when they have an argument? Love makes the world go around.
Tom I will be having dinner with Thana and Bestieeee!! Weeeeee.
I hope it all goes well for you. I want to see your old self:)
Thursday, November 15, 2007 // 6:16 AM
Something disturbing took place yesterday. But before I come to that, I shall just go on first about how my day went by. Firstly, Ashwin came to stay over the night before. A living pooh bear. We went to tekka to send him off cause his mother was there also. From there, I headed to Queenstown to meet my baby for his Deepavali shopping at Queensway Shopping Centre. He got himself a very nice shirt, a very very nice dark brown polo tee and a nice jeans. :P
After that, I headed down to Bedok for my grandfather's death prayers. Normally indians do prayers for the dead before Deepavali. As I was on my way, my mom called me to tell a shocking news. One of my uncles (dad's bro, his wife's bro) is admitted in the hospital in ICU. Though I don't really know him personally, I have seen him before and talked to him once or twice. The last I saw him was probably a year back at 888 plaza coffeeshop (woodlands) drinking.
So actually, what happened was,
My uncle was brutually hammered by 3 young Indian punks. A 21yr old, 19yr old and 18yr old beat him up with an umbrella, helmet and boots if im not wrong. And those bastards targetted his head only. And before bashing my uncle, the 21yr old actually bashed up another young teenage guy at Sembawang and they dug his eyes out. Now that guy is in GH ICU unit and the doctor has given him 24hrs.
After the prayers my mom decided to pay a visit to the uncle as we probably won't have time to go this week already. Also the doctors have given up hope and it was just a matter of time. We reached TTSH ICU Unit and saw my aunties all seated there. When we reached, they were cleaning him up. When the doctor was done, we all went in. It was the most depressing sight ever. His whole body was swollen. His eyes were covered. Tubes were everywhere and machines was all over him. His sisters were rubbing his hands as he felt quite cold.
I was standing in for about 5 minutes when my cousin decided to go out to call his wife and 2 young children. My mom told me to accompany her and we both left. But the wife was on the phone so we came back again. And from the door we saw all of them standing out and crying. We quickly ran back to call the wife. Our worst fears were confirmed. He was dead. My parents saw his life just slip by right infront of their eyes. At that point of time, I realized how 2 minutes or even 1 mintue made an impact. I was totally shocked. Just a moment ago, he was breathing. And I stepped out and and came back he was gone.
His daughter (Pri 5) started crying. I was holding on to the younger boy and my hand was across his chest. I could feel his heart beat so fast. He was probably about Pri 1 or 2 there. After a while, when my dad's brother went to hug him, he burst out crying. All of them went to see him except for the daughter. She didn't want to go. I stood there and accompanied her. After a while when she calmed down, she asked if she could go and see him. I asked her if she really wanted to and she nodded.
I brought her in and she went right beside him and started calling him. My god. Thinking about it now makes me feel so sad. The way she called him back, even my dad teared. The father was supposed to bring the kids on Wednesday for Deepavali shopping. And to add on, yesterday was the uncle's 12th year wedding anniversary. What could be more worse? I was so affected by it that my heart literally started to ache. God. I abhor death.
I wish I can see those 3 guys and give them the punishment they deserve. But I am not God and they don't deserve death sentence (if sentenced) because it will be just for 1 minute or 2. They won't get to suffer like how the victims did. No matter what the problem was or who provoked who, they had no right to beat someone to pulp. The uncle's whole lower jaw was broken plus his nose and those bastards even punched his eyes. His kidney and lungs failed and his skull had a lot of blood clots. Argggh. I am just soo irritated. I feel a lot for his young kids. One should never go through like this and should never die like that.
My question for this entry is,
If you are given a chance to be God and punish these fellas, what would you do? And how will you help the family?
Labels: death
Sunday, November 04, 2007 // 7:03 PM